Enjoy the devotion written by:
Lysa TerKeurst an a copyright of Proverbs 31 Ministries <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Woman do not condemn yourself or others, but celebrate each other\u2026..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But I\u2019m Nothing Like the Proverbs 31 Woman \u2026
APRIL 25, 2019
Lysa TerKeurst<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cCharm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.\u201d Proverbs 31:30 (ESV)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do you ever get that sinking feeling of not quite measuring up at the mention of the Proverbs 31 woman?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Me too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I remember when I first read this chapter many years ago as a young wife and mom. I thought the Proverbs 31 woman was overwhelmingly perfect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And as I\u2019ve walked through a season of extreme hardship in my marriage over the last few years, I\u2019ve found myself not just intimidated by Proverbs 31 but defeated by this wife whose marriage seems full of praises. Even good marriages don\u2019t always have such shiny realities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That\u2019s why my heart feels especially tender toward those who would rather skip over Proverbs chapter 31. I know what it\u2019s like to have these words sit heavy on your heart with a resounding declaration of \u201cnot enough.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what if I told you that the heart behind Proverbs 31:10-31 is one of celebration, not condemnation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The first thing I want us to take note of is that this isn\u2019t just a chapter about a wife of noble character, despite how your Bible titles verses 10-31. It\u2019s a chapter about a woman of valor. A courageous woman. A woman of strength and dignity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In Jewish culture, these verses are read out loud on the Sabbath as a celebration over the women. This is in no way condemning what they aren\u2019t but celebrating how they are, in their own unique expressions, living out the virtues detailed in this chapter. These aren\u2019t words meant to tell a woman she is supposed to be more. They are a celebration of who she is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Isn\u2019t that the way it should be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Courageous women celebrating each other \u2026 and those they love celebrating them? All under the banner of honoring God, serving out of love, and smiling at the future. Yes, this is why I love Proverbs 31 and rejoice that our ministry is named after such uplifting Scriptures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I also love how Proverbs 31:30 reminds us of what\u2019s truly worth celebrating: \u201cCharm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Notice it\u2019s not a woman with a spotless house who is to be praised. It\u2019s not the mom with perfectly behaved children wearing matching, designer outfits. Honestly, it\u2019s not even the woman who\u2019s married and has children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. This isn\u2019t an \u201cI\u2019m afraid of God\u201d kind of fear. This type of fear refers to having a heart completely in awe of God. It describes a woman who honors God by seeking Him in everything she does and trusting Him wholeheartedly with her life. She has a heart of reverence that overflows into a life of spiritual maturity and wisdom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And let\u2019s not forget to look at today\u2019s verses within the context of why God gave us this book of the Bible. The very first chapter of Proverbs tells us it exists so we can gain wisdom, instruction, understanding, insight, knowledge, discretion and guidance (as seen in Proverbs 1:1-7). Proverbs 2:1-5 goes on to remind us that as we receive and apply God\u2019s commands, we\u2019ll be able to understand how to find the knowledge of the Lord.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wisdom is both a gift from God and a process of learning. And Proverbs 2:10 tells us the benefit of this kind of wisdom: It will be pleasant to your soul as it enters your heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I know this is a passage of Scripture that can easily trip us up. But what if we take God at His Word and choose to believe these words hold good and pleasant things for us? What if we challenge ourselves to look at Proverbs 31 closely \u2014 to see which part of it is a gift to us and which verses we need to learn from? What if we speak these words over ourselves and the other women in our lives as a form of celebration instead of condemnation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
God tucked these words into His Word for all eternity, sweet friends. And that tells me they are needed and meant for our good. Let\u2019s ask Him to help us learn from them today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Father God, thank You for this beautiful picture You painted in the pages of Scripture. Help me receive these words from You as a gift. Help me hear them spoken over my own life with Your voice of love. And show me how to live them out, according to the unique way You purposefully designed me. In Jesus\u2019 Name, Amen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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